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Title: learning to cope with erratic parenting.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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learning to cope with erratic parenting. Dad shouts, mum dies, or vice versa – the actual event is not material, the context is all. We h...

learning to cope with erratic parenting. Dad shouts, mum dies, or vice versa – the actual event is not material, the context is all. We have no physical defence, so we devise a mental one – “this isn't happening to me”. So here’s a message to a dad, and to all parents – no parent I have ever met wants to give their child a psychosis, and I’m sure we don’t – but some infants are caught on the hop, and get stuck. They can be unstuck, but only when they can be persuaded that thinking is safe again – simple, but not easy. Our survival strategies get prolonged into adulthood, ‘the shadow self’ – it doesn't work, it can be shown not to work, and with enough trustworthy emotional support using the ten stages, non-psychotic thinking can be restored.
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