Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Ten Stages the motivation of the shadow parent.dynamic within ourselves in which we spend the rest of our lives seeking parents in others, both in friendships and especially in romantic relationships
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We all desire to be loved, starting as children by our parents. So often our parents failed us, and sometimes failed us grossly. This set...

We all desire to be loved, starting as children by our parents. So often our parents failed us, and sometimes failed us grossly. This sets up a dynamic within ourselves in which we spend the rest of our lives seeking parents in others, both in friendships and especially in romantic relationships. We project our split-off needs, desires, and unresolved sides of ourselves onto our friends and partners, even onto our children, in order to attempt to re- solve our childhood dilemmas. This is a set-up for failure, a guarantee for unhealthy relationships. Our recovery is to see people for who they are and not to project our unresolved issues onto them. Healthy relationships begin when we look to producing a relationship with our child within recovering the full truth about our own selves.
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