Our imperfections come from our childhood history of learned coping strategies.

The ways we were hurt by others, though often we disguise this by hurting others through coded means. No one causes destruction because he is inherently dissociated. No child is born evil, and no one was created imperfect. Our imperfections come from our childhood history of learned coping strategies. And when we heal that history we discontinue the dissociated cycle. Hurt people hurt people—and healed people heal people.