Can you allow yourself to feel the way you feel without judging it as wrong or un-spiritual?

Self-acceptance is the first major step in transformation. Without self-acceptance, no amount of reading or doing therapy or life coaching, or yoga or any other modality will really work. Without self-acceptance, all those things are just spiritual entertainment.
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