What are you going to do about your problem?

You must refuse to take responsibilities that belong to others. By doing this you obey natural law which requires everyone to take care of himself. Your trueness to this law returns rich rewards. So the next time someone tries to unload his responsibilities onto you, ask him, “What are you going to do about your problem?” This shows that you will not do his work for him, and also encourages his self-reliance.

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