At the bottom of all the difficulty lurks importance.

Importance includes self-importance and the importance we place on the actions of others. How often have you observed how irate some people get over the actions of others when it doesn’t even affect them personally? To achieve balance in our lives, one must be vigilant, diligent and always crank down the level of importance. Yes, we can desire things. But working up nervous indigestion and stress over worries that you won’t get what you want is harmful. Once again, balancing forces will come into play.

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