1. Come from stressed, repressed, or structural family members.
2. Reject their household was stressed, repressed or structural.
3. Responsibility themselves for everything.
4. Choose on themselves for everything, such as the way they think, encounter, look, act, and answer.
5. Get furious, protecting, self-righteous, and indigent when others blame and criticize the codependents -- something codependents consistently do to themselves.
6. Decline flatters or praise
7. Get disappointed from a deficit of flatters and reward (stroke deprivation)
8. Feel different from the world.
9. Think they're not quite excellent enough.
10. Feel accountable about buying themselves or doing needless or fun elements for themselves.
11. Worry denial.
12. Take elements individually.
13. Have been affected individuals of lovemaking, physical, or psychological mistreatment, neglect, desertion, or liquor addiction.
14. Think that affected individuals.
15. Tell themselves they can't do anything right.
16. Be terrified of creating faults.
17. Wonder why they have problems selection.
18. Have a lot of "shoulds".
19. Feel a lot of guiltiness.
20. Feel humiliated of who they are.
21. Think their life are not value living.
22. Try to help other individuals stay their life instead.
23. Get synthetic ideas of self-worth from assisting others.
24. Get powerful ideas of low self-worth ---embarrassment, failing, etc...from other peoples' breakdowns and issues.
25. Wish excellent stuff would occur to them.
26. Believe excellent stuff never will occur.
27. Believe they don't are entitled to excellent stuff and pleasure.
28. Wish others would like and really like them.
29. Believe other individuals couldn't possibly like and really like them.
30. Try to confirm they're excellent enough for other individuals.
31. Negotiate for being needed.
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