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Title: Checklist of Flaws and Assets
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Make a separate list of the character Flaws you believe may be affecting your life in a negative way and write an example of how that Fl...

Make a separate list of the character Flaws you believe may be affecting your life in a negative way and write an example of how that Flaw has affected you in a negative way.. eg. I tried to control my girlfriend and she left me.
Focus on how to change these Flaws.
Your character Assets can go on your grateful list!!!

Dysfunctional ways of acting, feeling or thinking which cause me or others pain.

 

Character Flaws   ...............Character Assets
aggressive, belligerent ...................... good-natured, gentle
angry   ............................................... forgiving, calm, generous
apathetic           ................................. interested, concerned, alert
apprehensive, afraid           ............... calm, courageous
argumentative, quarrelsome          ... agreeable
arrogant, insolent       ....................... unassuming, humble
attacking, critical     ........................... fair, self-restrained
avoidant  ............................................ faces problems and acts
blocking honest .................................. intuitive
boastful  ............................................. modest, humble
careless                 ............................. careful, painstaking, concerned
cheating ............................................. honest
competitive (socially)        ................. cooperative
compulsive ......................................... free
conceited1,self-important ............. humble, modest
contradictory, oppositional|          .... reasonable, agreeable
contrary, intractable, pigheaded        reasonable
controlling .......................................... lets go, esp. of other's lives
cowardly                ............................. brave
critical   ............................................. non-judgmental, praising, tolerant
cynical    ............................................ open-minded
deceitful guileless.............................. honest
defensive ........................................... open to criticism
defiant, contemptuous           ............ respectful
denying honest.................................. accepting.
dependent  ........................................ accepts help but is self-reliant
depressed, morose   .......................... hopeful, optimistic, cheerful
dirty, poor hygiene  ........................... clean
dishonest3                 .......................... honest
disloyal, treacherous  ........................ faithful, loyal
disobedient           .............................. obedient
disrespectful, insolent           ............. respectful, reverent
enabling ............................................. setting boundaries, tough love
envying2,3           ................................ empathetic, generous, admiring
evasive, deceitful   ............................. candid, straightforward
exaggerating ...................................... honest, realistic
faithless, disloyal   .............................. reliable, faithful
falsely modest  ................................... honest, has self-esteem
falsely prideful   ................................. modest, humble
fantasizing, unrealistic ...................... practical, realistic
fearful3             ................................. confident, courageous


forgetful        ................................... responsible
gluttonousexcessive             ......... moderate
gossiping      .................................... closed-mouth, kind, praising
greedy              ............................... moderate, generous, sharing
hateful3 forgiving, ........................... loving, concerned for others
hypersensitive  ............................... tolerant, doesn't personalize
ill-tempered1, bitchy        .............. good-tempered, calm
impatient                  ........................ patient
impulsive, reckless           ................ consistent, considered actions
inconsiderate          ......................... thoughtful, considerate
indecisive,timid ................................ firm, decisive
indifferent, apathetic, aloof              caring
inflexible, stubborn     ...................... open-minded, flexible
insecure, anxious         .................... self-confident, secure
insincere, hypocritical   ............... sincere, honest
intolerant               .......................... tolerant, understanding, patient
irresponsible, reckless        ............. responsible
isolating, solitary  ........................... sociable, outgoing
jealous                ............................. trusting, generous, admiring
judgmental      ................................. broadminded, tolerant
justifying (own actions)  ................. honest, frank, candid
lack of purpose          ....................... purposeful
lazy, indolent          .......................... industrious, conscientious
loud     .............................................. tasteful, quiet
lustful ............................................... healthy sexuality
lying   ............................................... honest
manipulative    ................................. candid, honest, non-controlling
masked, closed       .......................... honest, open, candid
nagging          ................................... supportive
narrow minded      ........................... open minded
obscene, crude                 ................ modest, courteous
over emotional         ........................ emotionally stable
perfectionistic     .............................. realistic goals
pessimistic........................................ realistic, hopeful, optimistic, trusting
possessive            ............................ open-minded
procrastinates ................................. disciplined, acts promptly
projecting (negative)    ................... clear sighted, optimistic
rationalizing   ................................... candid, honest
resentfulbitter, hateful              ... forgiving
resisting .......................................... growing willing to grow
rude, discourteous                    ....... polite, courteous4

sarcastic........................................ praising, tolerant
self-important  .............................. humble, modest
self-centered  ............................... caring of others
self-destructive, self-defeating   .. self-fulfilling
self-hating .................................... self-accepting, loving
self-justifying ................................ admitting wrongs, humble
self-pitying .................................... grateful, realistic, accepting
self-righteous                ................. humble, understanding
self-seeking             .................... selfless, concerned for others
selfish               ............................... altruistic, concerned with others
shy   ............................................... outgoing
slothful (lazy)          ....................... industrious, taking action
spiteful, malicious            ............... forgiving
stealing........................................... honest
stubborn ........................................ open-minded, willing
sullen .............................................. cheerful
superior, grandiose, pretentious     humble
superstitious          ......................... realistic, no magical thinking
suspicious                ........................ trusting
tense        ....................................... calm, serene
thinking negatively .................................. being positive
treacherous         ............................ trustworthy
undisciplined, self-indulgent          ..  disciplined
unfair          ...................................... fair
unfriendly, hostile, bitchy             .... friendly
ungrateful ........................................ thankful, grateful
unkind, mean, malicious, spiteful       kind
unsupportive of others           ......... supportive
untrustworthy, unreliable, dishonest|trustworthy
useless, destructive             ........... helpful
vain     ............................................. modest, humble
vindictive             ............................. forgiving
violent   ............................................ gentle
vulgar   ............................................ polite
wasteful                ........................... thrifty
willful .............................................. accepting of the inevitable
withdrawn             .......................... outgoing
wordy, verbose         ...................... frank, to the point, succinct
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