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Title: Protecting the alcoholic from the consequences of his/her own actions. But there is no way for him to ever hit bottom when it's always covered with pillows.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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alcoholism (Photo credit: ho un ombrello nel culo che si apre da sè ) He can't come in to work today, he's got a, er, virus... ...
alcoholism
alcoholism (Photo credit: ho un ombrello nel culo che si apre da sè)
He can't come in to work today, he's got a, er, virus... We've got to get him out of jail, he'll lose his job! Then what will we do... It was my fault, officer, I said some things I should not have said...
By doing these things, they are protecting the alcoholic from the consequences of his own actions. He never has to feel the real pain caused by his drinking. They rush in to put "pillows" under him so he doesn't hurt himself in the fall. Consequently, the alcoholic never finds out how it feels to fall.
Although drinking has placed him in a helpless and dependent position, the alcoholic can continue to believe he is still independent because he has been rescued from his troubles by his well-meaning family, friends, co-workers, employers and sometimes clergymen and counselors.
The roles these enablers play to "help" the alcoholic can be just as obsessive and harmful as the alcoholic's drinking, but that is a story for another day.
With these enabling devices in place, the alcoholic is free to continue in the progression of his disease, with his denial intact, until he perhaps reaches the point of hitting bottom, at which point even the most dedicated drinker must finally admit there is a problem. But there is no way for him to ever hit bottom when it's always covered with pillows.

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